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Last week, my family and I embarked on a trip to Denver, filled with anticipation and excitement. Little did we know that this journey would test our patience and resilience. Despite the challenges we faced, it taught us valuable lessons about gratitude and the importance of perspective. Join me as I recount the events of our eventful trip and reflect on the deeper meanings behind each experience.

Taking Flight with Unexpected Twists

Our adventure began with a direct flight from Charleston to Denver, a journey of approximately 3 hours and 30 minutes. A minor delay of 30 minutes didn’t dampen our spirits as we boarded the plane. The sight of our children’s excitement to be on a plane was contagious. However, the pilot’s announcement about rerouting due to inclement weather changed the course of our flight. We embarked on a longer journey, circling the Gulf of Mexico to avoid the storm. Our flight time was extended to 5 hours in total.

Adapting to Unforeseen Circumstances

As we approached Denver International Airport (DIA), the pilot delivered another unexpected announcement—a major storm had settled over DIA, leading to our diversion to Albuquerque, New Mexico. Retracing our path, we landed in Albuquerque after an additional hour on the plane. To make matters worse, five other planes had also been diverted, resulting in a prolonged wait on the tarmac for another 1 ½ hours. Navigating these challenges with two young children in tow was no easy task. Nevertheless, we kept our spirits up, knowing that these circumstances were beyond our control.

This is when I heard, why are we flying to Albuquerque?!

Finding Humor in the Unexpected

Upon finally reaching the terminal, we encountered yet another twist—a construction crew was diligently working on the terminal’s ceiling. With over 1,000 people in the terminal, their job had to take precedence over our weary travelers’ needs. Amidst the chaos, a worker on a scissor lift finished his task, causing a ruckus that reverberated throughout the terminal. As he drove the lift through the terminal, the beeping steadily got softer as he drove away. Fatigue and frustration began to set in, but amidst it all, I couldn’t help but find humor in the situation. I started to laugh, as what else could I do. Laughter erupted, momentarily lifting our collective spirits, while my kids, now wide awake and extremely disgruntled and beleaguered, looked on in confusion as to what could be funny.

Perseverance Amidst Turbulence

The time had come to reboard our plane, and we set our sights on Denver once more. With only 48 minutes until landing, it seemed like smooth sailing ahead. However, yet another storm hovering over DIA forced the pilot to take a longer route, adding an additional 1 hour and 45 minutes to our journey. Finally, at 2:45 AM, we touched down. Little did we know that our ordeal was far from over. Waiting for a gate and a gate agent consumed another 45 minutes, pushing our arrival time to 3:30 AM. We decided that I would retrieve the rental car while my wife stayed with the kids to collect our luggage.

Lessons in Grace and Gratitude

Fatigue weighed heavily on me as I waited for the rental car bus. Time passed, and my patience waned as I watched other rental buses come and go. Doubts crept in, questioning whether the car rental office was even open. Finally, at 4:00 AM, a ray of hope appeared as my rental bus approached. Eager to get the car and bring my family to the hotel, the driver delivered a disappointing message—the office wouldn’t open until 5:00 AM, unless one possessed elite membership. Relief washed over me as I remembered my own elite status and code. But fate had other plans, as my name was absent from the elite member list. Confusion ensued, and I shared my concerns with an agent. Discovering that my elite status had expired two months ago, he faced a decision that could further delay my family’s rest. With grace and understanding, I offered him the choice, “You can have me wait as it is my responsibility to ensure my elite status was active, or he could help me.” He chose compassion, pointing me towards a car and allowing me to proceed. Gratitude overwhelmed me as I set off to reunite with my loved ones.

The Power of Perspective

Reflecting on our journey, I realized the importance of perspective. The pilot’s responsibility for our safety took precedence over everything else. Although we lacked insight into the reasons behind our flight adjustments, we understood that our safety was paramount. Similarly, the workers at the Albuquerque airport found themselves faced with unexpected challenges, having to adjust their plans to accommodate the influx of weary travelers. Their dedication to their duties, despite the inconvenience caused, commanded my respect.

Lessons for Financial Turbulence

As a financial advisor, I draw parallels between our travel experiences and the turbulent markets we navigate. Although we lack a market radar akin to weather patterns, we diligently analyze leading indicators to make informed decisions and provide insights to our clients. Like the pilot who sometimes must deliver uncomfortable news and make important decisions, it is our duty to guide and advise, always with the best interests of our clients in mind. Lastly, the rental car worker exemplified the power of grace and going the extra mile to exceed expectations. We strive to provide an exceptional experience for our clients, recognizing that our collective efforts lead to outstanding results.


Our trip, filled with unexpected twists and turns, left an indelible mark on our family. Through challenges and setbacks, we learned the importance of gratitude, adaptability, and maintaining a positive mindset. The lessons from our journey extend beyond the travel realm and find resonance in our professional lives. As we continue to navigate the financial markets and support our clients, we will carry these lessons with us, ensuring that safety, compassion, and excellence guide our every step. Here are some photos of the happy family, safe and together in Denver!

Rachel and I with the Denver Skyline!

Ryan, Avery, along with Auntie Mary Lou and Uncle Wayne at Coors Stadium (going on 4 hours of sleep!)

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